I Didn’t Refinance: Here’s Why

I’d like to take a brief break from geeking out over fiction to share an anecdote about when I geeked out over refinance paperwork. Perhaps scam would a harsh term, maybe even unfair (I very well could be missing something here). But to this non-expert, paying attention just saved us from losing a bunch of money and reinforced the importance of reading before signing anything.

Back in the fall, my husband and I had the opportunity to refinance our mortgage to take advantage of lower interest rates. We looked at the numbers, and determined that refinancing would actually save us money, so we started the process.

We filled out the online paperwork, signed digitally, and locked in our rate (including getting some money back). Here are the terms we signed to lock in the rate while the paperwork processed.

Terms: 3.5% plus over $2,700 credit. Image Credit: N. Engineer

To clarify, we signed this document to secure a mortgage rate of 3.5% interest, and would also get over $2,700 credit for doing so. The rate needs to be locked in so that even if interest rates fluctuate while we wait for the paperwork to process, we and the bank agree to proceed with that particular rate.

So we signed. And then we waited. We had to schedule an appraisal and wait for the results, then wait for underwriting to do its thing. Legalese, legalese, paperwork, wait. And in that time, the lock-in date came and went, which meant that to continue processing the refinance, we had to sign an updated agreement (with the date pushed back) to extend the terms.

This time, you’ll notice, the rate is the same but the now the credit we’d receive was considerably lower. I believe the explanation about why was something about how the date for our escrow needing to be used to pay out our taxes was approaching, something something, I don’t remember now. Anyhow, while the payout was much lower, the numbers still seemed to tell us to proceed. So we signed to lock in the date for another month.

Terms: 3.5% plus credit just under $400. Image Credit: N. Engineer

And again, the lock-in date came and went. This time, when we were sent updated documents, we were told that the taxes did need to be paid out, and that the escrow didn’t have enough money to cover it, and that we would have to pay some money to cover that, but that somehow it would still benefit us to sign. Because 3.5% is a great interest rate.

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Terms: 3.5% plus owe $6,700. Image Credit: N. Engineer

Except, math. Looking side by side at the numbers, we went from getting $2,700 by refinancing to owing $6,700 cash. According to math, the refinance would cost us $10,000. And while Math is hardly a dashing spandex-wearing flying superhero, he’s certainly a hero in our book.

Regardless of the tax situation, signing that document the third time did not make sense.

We walked away. And I’m glad that I kept screen shots of the terms. I’m not looking to call out any lenders, and I’m not certain if this was the result of bureaucratic inefficiency, the timing of tax payments, or nefarious plotting by some evil super villain, but either way, I’m glad Math and Reading (and a little bit of Critical Thinking) were on our side. If the purpose of refinancing was to save money long term and add a little money to our pockets along the way, then this was not the way to accomplish that.

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This post was last modified on December 12, 2017 2:12 am

Nivi Engineer

“When I despair, I remember that all through history the way of truth and love has always won. There have been tyrants and murderers, and for a time, they can seem invincible, but in the end, they always fall. Think of it, always.” – Mahatma Gandhi (from the movie, Gandhi)

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